about Stefani
Hi – I’m Stefani
I know from personal and professional experience that the fear of dogs impacts daily life. It can cause major stress for the client and the entire family. With thoughtful and supportive help, the fear can be overcome. While I hope everyone eventually learns to enjoy dogs, my ultimate goal is for people to be able to be near dogs without feeling panicked.
As a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, psychotherapist and parenting consultant, I have worked with hundreds of families and have over 25 years of experience. I grew up in Connecticut and was fortunate to share my life with lots of animals – dogs, cats, horses and guinea pigs. When my daughter, Becky, age 5, announced one day that she was afraid of dogs I was surprised, confused and upset. I had no idea how to help her.
Intuitively, my sister, Cathy Malkin, and I did exposure therapy with Cathy’s wonderful dog KC. Becky learned to feel safe around dogs. She was able to go on playdates, visit relatives and go about her daily life without always worrying if she would see a dog.
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Truthfully, my stress level went down as well. Becky had been ashamed of her fear and didn’t want me telling anyone that she was afraid of dogs. I no longer had to make up excuses for why she wouldn’t go somewhere.
When my parenting clients realized I was a dog lover and had a wonderful therapy dog they asked me to bring the dog to sessions. I started informally helping my clients with the assistance of Mugsy and then Fozzie (both registered therapy dogs). Now, Winnie helps me.
Over time, I realized that my methods were very successful in helping people overcome their fear of dogs. I decided to formalize the protocol. I put it in writing and the result is my two books – one for adults and the other for children. I also share my expertise widely in articles and podcasts and directly with clients.
In essence, I have combined my three hats – psychotherapist, parent and dog lover to help people face their fear of dogs.
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Hi, i’m stefani!
As a social worker and parenting consultant, Stefani has worked with hundreds of families and has over 20 years of experience. Her specialty is working with parents and children from birth to age 10. Some of these children may present with learning differences and special needs, while others may be strong-willed or are having difficulty in school and are a challenge for their parents. Many people find it helpful to discuss their parenting concerns in a “judgment-free zone” and to be able to have a sounding board. Individual counseling for adults is also available.
In addition to counseling, Stefani provides animal-assisted therapy and humane education programs and helps people overcome their fear of dogs. Stefani is assisted by well-behaved and dependable dogs, including her Keeshond Winnie.
As a child, Stefani was fortunate to share her life with dogs, cats, horses, and guinea pigs. Stefani enjoys sharing this love of animals with the people she meets. Stefani uses her personal and professional experience in many different ways. It might be helping a family decide if they are ready for a pet or suggesting some rituals to help a grieving family after the death of a beloved pet.
Stefani received a BA in sociology from William Smith College and a Master’s Degree in Social Work from NYU. She is a member of NASW and the Association of Professional Humane Educators as well as Dog Gone Safe.
